I'm not sure if you've tried travelling with another family who also have 2 kids under five. It must be the most fun thing EVER! Challenging but really really fun!
I've known Sue since we were in Sunday School. We lost contact along the way and started hanging out again when we both had kids. James knew Es since Insomnia days. They are prob the only couple that each of us knew separately before we got married, which is pretty cool. Skyler and Sophie are a year apart, similar characters. Eli and Levi are 2 months apart, similar characters. Sue and I like similar things and James and Es also like similar things. Both families are pretty easy going, i.e. we're not about getting everything done in record time. In fact, most days we only left the house at lunch time and we only saw or did one thing each day. Both families were on tight budgets - it was quite funny towards the end of the trip we were all counting our last cents! Both families care for each other - which meant that we really helped each other out in every way we can. Both families felt comfortable around each other - that is so important coz we were happy to just rot and not talk if we didn't feel like it, no pressure! Yet in many ways we were different - e.g. Sue cooks all the kids meals and had no qualms about driving all 8 of us around, I did all the bookings and planning, James made most of the eating decisions and cooked most of our meals in record time, Es led us to interesting places and things. We even took turns putting the kids to bed and babysitting!
At the end of the trip, we figured we can do the Amazing Race, family edition and probably survive and still be friends at the end of it! In fact, I think we'd make a great missions team!
Here is our version of how to travel New Zealand with another family, with kids and on a budget:-
Part I North Island
Day 1 - Pick up the Wees in Auckland, return to base
Day 2 - Leave for Tauranga in 2 MPVs, stayed at a friend's beach house for 3 nights
Day 3 - Checked out town, had fish and chips, went to the beach, came home, put the kids to bed and had a quiet dinner, just the 4 of us.
Day 4 - Went to Rotorua and visited Wai-O-Tapu, Huka Falls (near Lake Taupo), Huka Honey Hives (where we bought the most amazing Honey Mead!), back to Rotorua for dinner and then back to Tauranga. One of the most tiring day. It was quite hazardous driving in the dark for me.
Day 5 - Return to Matamata, spent the day packing and cleaning up our unit, left for Auckland, stayed a night at a hotel near the airport
Part II South Island
Day 6 - Left Auckland and flew an hour or so to Queenstown (South Island). Arrived in Queenstown, checked into a hotel that we booked at the airport just before we boarded the plane! It was a 3 bedroom apartment, short walk to town. We decided to stay at the same place for 6 nights.
Day 7 - We decided to chill for 2 days and then do more touring. So we spent 2 days just hanging out in town, walking the shops, eating, absorbing the lovely weather and view of the snow peaked mountains.
Day 8 - After lunch (best burger of my life! Pork Belly burger at
Fergburger), we went to ride on the Gondola and stayed at the top for the entire afternoon. Sue wasn't feeling the best so they went back for a rest while we went to book a car for the next 3 days. After dinner, James and I went for a date while the Wees babysat.
Day 9 - Arrowtown (1/2 hr out of town)
Day 10 - Adventure day! Shotover jet. The two lil girls got to go on FREE! It's great to travel in NZ with under 5s. Since we didn't do much today, we decided to get a BBQ going and had the most delicious BBQ ever and no sweat! :)
Day 11 - Wanaka (1 hr out of town), visited Puzzling World, returned to Queenstown for dinner.
Part III North Island
Day 12 - Left Queenstown for Auckland. We almost missed our flight! More about that later. Checked into the worst hotel EVER. NO TOILET! We booked in a hurry and forgot to read the fine print. Cheap but NO TOILET! Eeks. We stayed for a night and upgraded the next day. Met up with Simon, had cheap food court dinner at K road.
Day 13 - Went for lunch at Newmarket. The Wees continued shopping while we returned to the hotel to start packing. The boys went for gig while Sue and I brought the 4 kids for dinner, Ice-Cream and Borders.
Day 14 - Lunch with the Wees. After that, Es went bungy jumping while we went shopping and had tea. Met up again for dinner and then off to the airport.
Day 15 - Back in Singapore!